Friday, February 10, 2012

Relationships


I am back again after a long time. But with lot of changes. I am going to speak about Relationships in this post.

Life took a turn in all directions for me. Being the youngest in the family, I always had someone to take care of me or to look after me. But now, I am sailing in my life on my OWN. I am expected to be sensible all the time in addition to my full time job, full time mom, & wife roles. Moreover I need to be a responsible daughter, wife, mom, sister, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, friend and so on.

I am still not sure and also do not believe that all can be balanced at all times. That’s when I think about lot of things that is affecting me directly or indirectly. Can any of this role be compromised? I think, that’s where all of us struggle. We always want to be perfect in everything, which in reality is not possible. What do we do? How do we balance it? Is there any easy Mantra that can be pronounced and fix everything in life? Hmm.. May be not. Life is not that easy :).

According to me, the most complicated thing in life is Human Relationships. If this can be handled easily, everything can be handled very well. Being it a home or office, we always deal with people. You cannot justify that I am a software engineer, I write code and do not have to deal with people. You always deal with people irrespective of you like it or not. Take a minute and think about all your roles that you are on at this moment. Can you think of a scenario without other people in any of the role?

Think about it. I will be back soon with my next post. Take care till then!

Life is a Race


"Life is a Race". How many of you would agree to it? Be it at home or at office, you are always competing with someone to succeed. I will not even say "Succeed", it is actually "Survive".

This is actually a scary part for me. Because I feel like I already stated running in the race and I do not have have option to stop in the middle. If I do, then I am loosing or giving up the game. Can I be a looser? Not sure yet. May be I should start think that loosing is ok

Beware!!! Irrespective of you like it or not, you are already in the game of competition.


My First Post

Hmmm.... I have been thinking about blogging for a long time.

I know it is crazy to say this as a software person. But finally today got to do it. Also, could not find nice name to start with. Spent lot of time and finally ended up with ThoughtsLimitless :). I really want to keep MyHeartSpeaks, but thats already taken.

Life has changed so much and it is taking its own turns. I seriously don't know where to start with. To be honest, I am not keeping touch with all of my friends. I am NOT on facebook, twitter or linkedin etc. I know there will be only 10 people in USA who are not in facebook and I am one of them :). This reminds me of something.

My parents don't watch much movies and when they visited us in 2007, my mom told Vijay that she did not watch "Kaakka Kaakka", it is the same dialogue he delivered. "Tamilnaatula Kaakka Kaakka paarkaadhavanga naalu peru, adhula unga amma and appa rendu peru".