I
am very very happy. Happiness from the bottom of my heart J. I have the mixed
feeling of accomplishment, pride & happiness today. I do not know whether I
am explaining it well. But when you read this blog, you will get some idea.
Let
me start from the SMANgs. SMANgs stands for Sangeetha, Maya, Annam, Nimmi,
Gayathri & Sudha. We all studied together at Velammal Engineering College.
We were one of the Araathu gangs in our batch and had loads and loads of fun.
All of us are here in United States right now, moved for our higher studies,
job and family life etc. Four of us are still in touch regularly. This whole
idea of Reunion started sometime last year when I was very much stressed. I
felt like we lost us (self) and started living for others all the time. It is
not directly others, but my role changed so much and I felt like we live as a
mom, wife, daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, sister-in-law etc. I felt like we
are under constant pressure to live our everyday life and do not have time to
think about ourselves. I sent an email to Annam, Maya, Shalini & Nimmi and
asked them about this idea (we are not in touch with Gayathri & Sudha). I got good responses from all of them with
some hesitations. But I thought we could still make this happen if we all make
up our mind. We discussed about this few times and went into hibernate mode.
After my India trip, Maya emailed all of us about it again. This time, everyone
got serious and decided on the dates and place. We did the voting system and
decided to go to Clearwater, Florida during April 4th to 7th
2014. Everyone booked their flight tickets. The highlight of this is, until we
booked our air tickets, we did not talk to each other over phone J. The next day
Annam called me and said Is this even real? We all just booked the tickets
without even talking. After that I took the back seat (was switching my jobs)
and the other girls took care of all the other things. We booked the condo on
the Bay, car and spa package.
Everything
was set but still we all had our own hesitations. We did not create too much
hype at home, prepared our spouse/kids to some extent. I told my 2 year old in
the morning that Amma will not be home when she comes back from preschool and I
am going to Florida. She said bye to me and gave a big hug. In the evening when
Vijay picked her up, I was at the airport & he called me and both the kids
told me to have fun, enjoy your flight, bye etc. But when Vijay entered the
home, the first question that Samanu asked was “Where is Amma?”. She is a
cutie.
We
all flew to Tampa, the nearest airport to Clearwater on Friday April 4th.
Annam arrived first, Maya & Nimmi arrived next eventhough their flights got
delayed and I arrived last & my flight was on time J. I was so nervous
initially – not sure why. I called Nimmi from the baggage counter and they all found
me finally and we shared hugs J. Immediately I took my camera out
and looked for a “Baliyaadu” to take a picture of us. We found one and he took
couple of pictures. I was very keen on taking pictures whatever we do and
wherever we go as I want to do a photobook about this trip later.
Then
we went to rent the car. Nimmi graciously booked a car rental from Ace (no one
knows whether that company exists or not J) and when we went to rental cars’
place, we could not find the company. We spent some time calling them and no
one picked up the phone, finally we figured out that they are located outside
the airport and their offices are closed at 11 PM. By the time, we all met it
was already past 12:30 AM. We then rented a car from Hertz and left the
airport. We reached our condo at around 2:30 AM. We left our luggage and went
to nearby 24/7 shop to get coffee powder, bread, banana etc. We came back and
talked until 6 AM on Saturday morning. We exchanged our little gifts. I got the
custom made Tshirts which says SMANgs Reunion VEC on the front and Apr 4 to 7,
2014, Clearwater, Florida on the back. I thought it was cool and I think that
my friends thought the same. It was in pink with white letters. I got a cute
ring holder from Annam, Bracelets from Maya & Nimmi.
Annam
& I talk so much (People who know me should really know this à Annam talks more
than me J) and we interrupt
Maya & Nimmi all the time. But the fun part is, Maya interrupted us few
times which was a medical miracle. It was really really fun to catch up. I am
not on facebook and do not know updates about anyone. We discuss about few
people and when I tell them, I do not remember who it was, they would
immediately open the facebook page in their page and show that person’s
picture.
We
slept at 6 AM and got up at 10 AM. I went and woke up Nimmi & told her that
I am very hungry, please get up and make coffee and toast for me. You know
what? She really did. She actually made my breakfast for all the three days
even though she made fun of me that she thought she did not have to do all that
for 3 days by not bringing kids, but had to because of me. God Bless You
Nimmi!!!
We
decided to go for lunch and we all got ready. By the time, we walked to a beach
restaurant “Palm Pavilion”, it was 4 PM and we had our lunch there. We took our first picture on the phone and
immediately uploaded to facebook. Maya tagged and we started getting messages.
One of our friend Chakravarthy messaged “When did this happen?”. Maya responded
“It is happening right now” J. It was really fun to see the
messages and responses. We then came back to condo, worn our SMANgs tshirt and
went to beach. Weather was very nice and we stayed in the water for some time
and walked to pier. There were lots of shops with fun stuff. We then had kettle
corn and pizza and walked back to condo. It was already very late, we all got
ready and started talking again J. We were talking about the all the
crushes and proposals (including a shallow one) that happened during our
college days. We talked until 5:30 AM again and went back to sleep. Looked like
Maya & Nimmi talked until 7 AM that day. We had our spa package appointment
at Michelle Bella Spa at Sunday noon. So we got up around 10 AM and got ready
for the spa.
We
lost the route and ended up going to spa at 12:35 PM. The spa was open on Sundays
only for the appointments and we had that whole spa for us on that day. We all
got our Manicure, Pedicure, Facial etc. with lunch. It was 5:30 PM when we all
got done. Annam paid upfront for all of us and when we came out we gave a huge
hug to Annam thanking how gracious she was to get such a wonderful gift. She
had a small jerk first and then understood that we were kalaasifying her. We
came back home and got ready for the fun dinner at an Italian restaurant. We
all dressed up nicely and went to Cesare Italian restaurant. We had nice dinner
and stayed until 10 PM there. We were talking non-stop and taking pictures
wherever we went and whatever we did. It would be too much repetition in my
post and that’s why I did not add it everywhere.
We
came back home and packed most of our
stuff and started talking again. We decided to sleep early at 3:30 AM as we all
had to catch our flights from 12:30 PM the next day. We left our condo by 10:40
and reached airport. We checked in and went to Marriott to have full-fledged
breakfast. We had a very good breakfast. Nimmi was checking her flight status
in Arrivals instead of Departures J. We already started talking about
our next trip and they asked me to think about it. It was time for me to leave
and I thought I might cry if I talk to them for a long time. With tears in my eyes, I just said
bye and left without even turning around. I felt so weird and not sure how to explain
that feeling. I felt good about what we did for 3 days and at the same time I
felt bad for leaving. And as an adult, I knew this was coming and I should be
prepared.
During
those 3 days, I felt like I was much more peaceful and relaxed than any other time.
All of us were in the same mindset and none of us were calling their homes too
much and asking too many updates or giving too many updates. I really need to
give credit to our respective spouse(s) who took care of our kids and left us
in peace.
We
genuinely cared about each other – there is no judging involved in anything. We
could discuss and express anything. I really felt very good about it. I feel
like each of us are in the constant pressure about being judged (or at least I
am) for whatever we do or talk and I am done with it and do not want to get
into that trap forever. This trip really helped me to get over it and felt like
I still possess the same values what I had so many years ago. We could bond
well as we did so many years ago. I could ask them or tell them whatever I feel
like – which itself was a big relief for me J.
Ultimately
we stayed OURSELVES the whole time and that was the whole intention of this
trip. This trip/vacation/reunion whatever we call, it was really rejuvenating,
relaxing and refreshing.
I
came back home and told Vijay that he should consider doing something like this
with his friends. I hope he plan one like this soon so that I can plan my next
one J. I would treasure
those 3 days throughout my life and it was one of the best trips. I really want
to thank Annam, Nimmi & Maya for making this happen.
SMANgs
Reunion made all of us Rejuvenated, Relaxed and Refreshed.
Love
you Girls !!!