The detail that I am going to talk about could happen in almost
all houses in various subtle ways. But I still wonder whether the human beings
with XY chromosomes could identify and recognize this easily. And I am sure my
dear husband will never ever have a clue about this J.
Whenever I am angry with my husband or in disagreement with him,
the way I give his morning coffee/tea changes. I have 3 different kind of
coffee mugs at my home. One is made of Corelle and of Indian cup size and looks
very cute. The Second one came with my Corelle dinner set and it is little
heavier than the first one. And I have the third set, which is the heaviest of
all and this was our baby sprinkle return gift to our friends during my 2nd
pregnancy. I kept one set for myself as a remembrance and we started using it
recently.
So, based on my mood and how I feel about him that morning the cup
changes.
- If I am in a very happy mood and really think my husband is my best friend who understands me, I will give coffee/tea in cute Corelle cup (first set).
- If I am not in a happy mood and have some disagreements with my husband, I will give my coffee/tea in the Cup from the heavier second set.
- If I am completely annoyed, I will give coffee/tea in the heaviest cup from the third set.
I just think that it is a way for me to express how I feel. I know
he does not have any idea or a clue about why I use different cups, but if any
time he reads this blog post he will know.
We live far away from our family and it is us who has to go through
good and bad in our family life, we cannot bring in our extended family into everything.
We fight, disagree and then just move on. I am not saying we are the perfect
couple, we are not even close. Comparatively we have more conflicts and
disagreements than a normal couple but we both know to give space to each other.
We kind of got adjusted to respect each other as a person. I have my space and
time for my hobbies, interests and my girly time with my friends. And at the
same time, he gets time for his hobbies, interests, his boy time with his
friends, his own whatsapp group with his childhood friends etc.
Over the years, we kind of learnt “Agree to Disagree”.
One thing to notice is, Coffee/Tea is always provided irrespective
of my mood J.
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